Unhealthy relationships can start early and last a lifetime. Dating violence often starts with teasing and name calling. These behaviors are often thought to be a "normal" part of a relationship. But these behaviors can lead to more serious violence like physical assault and rape.

(Adapted from CDC)
Teen dating violence is defined as the physical, sexual, or psychological/emotional violence within a dating relationship. U may have heard several different words used to describe teen dating violence. Here are a few:

Relationship Abuse
Intimate Partner Violence
Relationship Violence
Dating Abuse
Domestic Abuse/Violence

Adolescents & adults are often unaware how regularly dating violence occurs. In a nationwide survey, 9.8% of high school students report being hit, slapped, or physically hurt on purpose by their bf or gf in the 12 months prior to the survey. (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2009 Youth Risk Behavior Survey.)

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Why does it happen?

Despite the "golden rule" of treating others, quite a few teens are involved in violent relationships. And many think it's justified. After all, society seems to be okay with it, especially when we turn to TV shows and popular songs. Violence is never acceptable. But there are reasons why it happens. Violence is related to certain risk factors. Risks of having unhealthy relationships may go up for teens who:

Believe it's ok to use threats/violence to get their way or to express frustration & anger.
Use alcohol or drugs.
Can't manage anger or frustration.
Hang out with violent peers.
Have a friend involved in dating violence.
Have low self-esteem or are depressed.
Have learning difficulties & problems at school.
Don't have parental supervision & support.
Witness violence at home / community.
Have a history of aggressive behavior or bullying.